You indeed can list numerous places to meet a Russian girl – the Internet, grocery and department stores, streets, clubs, coffee shops… and counting. However, city bars and lounges remain the most popular spots to get acquainted with a good-looking single girl. But beware: it’s not that simple. Different dating sites claim bars to hold a plethora of easy-going girls that are always ready to talk and date. That’s not quite right. Yes, you might find many girls there. But for sure you need a special approach to achieve success in picking up Russian girls in bars.
The trouble about the bars is that most people (girls, for instance) don’t visit such places to get a date. They come with friends to have a drink or talk for a while, or just to relax after a day of hard work. Therefore, they do not want any new acquaintances, so you will have to do your best to win their attention. Even though Russian girls are rather cheerful and sociable, you cannot force any of them to communicate if she’s not into it at this moment of time. On the contrary, those ladies who visit bars to meet men (even Russian girls) may turn out to be gold-diggers or just want to get free drinks. Yes, nobody is perfect.
We promised to provide you with several useful tips to picking up a single Russian girl at a bar. Well, here they are:
1. Access your chances
The situation can be very different. For instance, if you see several girls sitting around the table, laughing and chitchatting – you can without doubts approach them. Even if none of them wants to meet new people, as a group, they would indeed be happy to spend some time in a company of a young man. If you see two girls having a have a tête-à-tête in a very intimate way – you should not bother them, they perhaps discuss something truly important.
2. Sending drinks does not work
This ancient seduction technique had been polished through decades until the moment it became too trivial to be used. It may seem like a good idea, but if you think about it for a minute, you may understand that instead of making you attractive, it demonstrates your insecurity. However strange it might sound, but approaching a girl with simple hellos works much better. You will save a lot of time and money by giving up this unoriginal boyish pattern.
3. Have a small talk to get along
Russian girls are brainy. They understand that you have some intents. And you probably have. But before revealing your real thoughts (which certainly exclude casual sex in a bathroom), you need to talk for a while to understand if there’s a spark between you two. You can start with a joke about the place you are in and then move on to asking names and plans. Do not act like a creep. Most girls feel weird while getting acquainted in a bar. Even the most gorgeous and accustomed to attention ones.
4. Work on compliments
Another widespread fallacy – girls don’t like compliments about their physical appearance. Russian girls like them even less because it makes them feel odd. If you eagerly want to use it, concentrate your attention on her behavior and intelligence. Nevertheless, ‘your eyes are sparkling’ said in a right tone and manner may catch her attention. In most cases, it’s all about how you do it and not what you do. Except for pickup lines. Avoid that monstrosity, please.
5. A proper finale
Here comes the moment you’ve been waiting for – she’s interested and suddenly wants to continue your meeting. It’s all about you now – fulfill your ideas, get her phone number, or appoint the next meeting. Just be honest about what you really expect from your future dates. Russian girls find frankness rather mannish.